(It should also be noted that if your burglar sees a slave in a cage, he’ll most likely flee: only 7% of US burglaries happening while house is occupied result in any violence.) As there are about 125 million households in the country, the risk of having a fire in a residence in the US in any eight hour period is approximately one in 360,000, and a burglary one in 240,000. According to FEMA, there are approximately 380,000 household fires annually in the US, and according to FBI, about 1.5 million burglaries. If we forget the complications of bondage itself, and focus on external dangers that could kill or injure your sub, the numbers are pretty clear: any external danger is ridiculously low.įire and burglary are the main external dangers. And while society is willing to sign off on a certain amount of controlled risk-taking in pursuit of non-sexual pleasures-people die skiing, snowboarding, skydiving, scuba diving-we're less willing to sign off on controlled risk-taking when it comes to sexual pleasures. ![]() But being left alone in bondage is something many people fantasize about and some people, like your boyfriend's bondage buddies, will actually do. That's what everybody says and, hey, I just said it too. I'm with every BDSM educator, author, and expert, BIND: never leave someone alone in bondage. Am I wrong? Doesn't everyone consider it unsafe to leave someone alone in bondage? I don't want him to play with them again. He wanted to be left alone, he thought it was sexy, he didn't get hurt, so what's the problem? But while it may have been consensual, it wasn't safe (what if there was a fire?) or sane (WHAT IF THERE WAS A FIRE?). I asked him how long he was like that and he guessed it was about 90 minutes, maybe, "however long the guys were out to dinner." It turned out that they'd left him alone! I was really upset with his bondage friends for leaving him alone-I've been heard over and over that you're never supposed to leave someone in bondage alone-but he says it was consensual. One of the pics was of him on a bondage board strapped down in a sleepsack. The last time he was showing me pictures from a bondage session we wound up having a fight. I know them and I always get to see the pictures after they play. There are two guys he plays with and that's not a problem.
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